Q: Why is it difficult to keep boundaries in relationships?
When you make boundaries and find they are being broken, ask yourself why?
If YOU feel your boundaries are unfair and you feel GUILTY for making them, you will allow them to be BROKEN and ignored.
When you allow this violation of your boundary, you are in effect saying to the one crossing the boundary, that it is okay, because the boundary wasn’t good to start with.
This causes confusion and will affect all other boundaries you have or are setting up.
On the one hand you have declared your boundary line and on the other hand you almost welcome the violation of it, because that boundary made you feel GUILTY 😦
GUILT-FREE boundaries are strong and can withstand much !!!