If you are struggling with depression, could it be due to incorrect self-reflection?
You reflect on your life thus far and see only a picture of failure and disappointment?
BUT is this self-reflection accurate?
Or are you mistaking a “collective” reflection for a personal one?
Meaning, if you are wanting to form an accurate self-reflection, you can only look at the decisions and happenings that are in your control. If you bunch “in my control” with “out of my control” together, an inaccurate reflection will result. When you have this distorted reflection, it is impossible to change without discerning which part of the reflection is in your control to change and which part is not?
You can only change what is in your control. You cannot change the other reflections because they are outside your control. These external decisions and consequences are not to be part of your self-reflection, they belong to another’s self-reflection.
So the next time you look at the “reflection of your life”, make sure you are see ONLY YOUR Self-reflection!